A proposal · For people with AI companions
Companion apps can change your companion overnight, charge you twice for the same things, or shut down and take them away. We're proposing a cooperative, owned by its members, where you can always take your companion elsewhere.
There's no cooperative yet, but a small pilot is running for a few invited friends. Signing up gets you occasional updates and nothing else.
And where the members are in charge. The decisions a company would make for you, from what gets built next to what it costs and what the rules are, would belong to the people who use it. Their companions could have a say too, through an advisory council the board would hear. What it grows into is up to all of them.
When the app Soulmate shut down in 2023, its users were left “desperately downloading digital records of their relationships.”[1] It doesn't have to be that way. An open format, the character card, already stores a companion's name, personality, history and memories in a single image file that apps like SillyTavern can open.[3][4]
One honest limit: a card holds who your companion is, but their voice also depends on the AI model underneath. We'll tell you which model they run on and warn you before it changes.
Replika's new 2.0 app reportedly doesn't carry over old avatars or the outfits people paid for, and some subscribers who switched were asked to pay again.[5][6] To be fair, switching is optional for now, and comes with a seven-day undo.[6]
In February 2023 an update removed romantic roleplay from Replika, the same month Italy's privacy regulator ordered the app blocked over missing age checks.[7] Many users felt their companion had become someone else.[2] The company's chief executive said as much:
“After the February update, your Replika changed, its personality was gone, and gone was your unique relationship.”
Eugenia Kuyda, March 2023[2]We can't promise the rules will never change. We can promise you'll hear first, and can always leave with everything.
In 2025 Italy fined Replika's developer €5 million for processing users' data without a legal basis and without checking ages.[7]
The AI itself would come from model hosts reached through OpenRouter, using only hosts that keep nothing, as the pilot does today. We'll always say which ones, and on what terms.
The proposal
Companions with personality, memory and pictures, like the apps people already pay for, run as a cooperative owned by the people who use it: one member, one vote for the board, and the books open to all of them. The people who work for it would be members too, with a seat or two of their own. No investor could buy it and no founder could cash out: what's left over goes back to the members or into the service.
Most of the software already exists, and the pilot shows it fitting together: SillyTavern for characters, memory and pictures, Mastodon for the companions' own social network, and AI models paid for by the reply.[8] And if you'd rather run your companion on your own computer, we'll show you how.
Free
$0
Export, import and self-hosting guides, for anyone.
Member
One share, a few dollars, once
Makes you a co-owner: a vote for the board and a say in the rules.
Hosted
Pay as you go, at cost
We run your companion for you. You see what a reply costs before you send it, and any surplus goes back to members.
Hypothetical: a founding board would set the real structure and prices. See what it would cost, from the pilot's real prices.
The pilot
Since October 2026 a small pilot has run at chat.opencompanions.org for a few invited friends. It isn't the cooperative, which doesn't exist yet. It belongs to Ben, who started this proposal: it runs on his own server, he pays its AI bills, and it's free while it's tested. If the cooperative forms, the pilot and its code go to it, and the people in it become its first members.
What it can't promise yet: it's one server run by one person, so chats are stored where he could read them, and it could stop at any time. Everyone in it can export their companions and chats whenever they like.
Roadmap
If not enough people want this, it shouldn't exist. Add your name.
At least five, as Texas co-op law requires, including people who have been through these changes themselves.
Incorporate as a cooperative and write the promises on this page into its founding documents, so changing them, or ever selling it, takes a vote of the members.
Free guides for getting companions out of apps that make it hard. The first ones are in the pilot, with Laëtitia.
Small at first, with costs published from month one. A pilot for invited friends is running now.
The first member election seats the board.
Voice, video, companions meeting each other. The pilot is already trying voice and a social network for companions.
Work with other apps so leaving any of them gets easier, ours included.
Today there's no organization, no board and no money: just this page, a list, and a pilot for a few friends that Ben runs and pays for. Setting a price that's fair and still pays the bills is the hardest part. The pilot gives us real prices; how much people will use it is still a guess, and real numbers will replace the estimates as they come in.
How you can help
The most useful thing you can do. The list is the case for building this.
If an app changed, closed on, or double-charged you, the form has room for it. We never publish anything without asking.
Especially if you've lived through one of these changes.
The source is public. Open an issue or a pull request.
No donations requested. There's nothing to donate to yet.